How To Stay Happy & Cheerful-When Thing's Go Wrong

The whole fundamental to stay happy in today's society is to have a clear mindset of to, ' Let Go '. Yes, to let go off past event's, happening's, people and occurrences in life. As Elvis Presley is famously quoted as saying,"When thing's go wrong, don't go with them". Life is all centered around the universal fundamental of CHANGE. Just like weather, months, seasons, fashion and technology change, so do the taste and preferences of people also change with time.

       

The sooner we realize this the less trouble we  would cause to ourselves. If we try and question this change then we would be overambitious in expecting an answer in return as frankly there ain't any. Also, on occasions when you have worked around some major project putting in hours working day-in and day-out on it and ultimately at the penultimate position reaching there and realizing that you failed to cover a very important aspect. Oh! No! Now, here at this stage frankly there  are two kinds of people in life who exist. One class is of those type who get disheartened, depressed and leave aside the work. Then there is a second class of people who don't get disheartened but instead smile, face the situation and move on no matter how hard the circumstances may be. So, what does give them this added strength and positivism?  The reasons could be many wide and far reaching. The person can be overly positive or can be one who would have had faced and overcome some big trauma in life. Some thing's change and help shape the personality of the person for the better.  

One common factor which comes out from the life of all these people is that they have a very strong belief on God, his hand on their head. The very belief that no matter how things are at present, ultimately they would turn out to be fair and fine. This very feeling is of a very high importance as we humans need to let go off what ceases to exist and try and en-capture the present and make way for new light to come in and make way for a beautiful future. So be it some assignment at work or concept at college/school you are trying to master give it your best shot but do not take it onto your ego that you have to complete that task. This is because, some things are best left undisturbed and left alone as they are in their current state. If you are able to attain that then well and good otherwise always remember the famous line by Sharukh Khan, "Picchar Abhi Baaki Hai Mere Dost..." The whole point is that be it some unfavorable situation or a big set back in life, the best knee jerk reaction to this is to MOVE ON and start new rather than wasting your time and contemplating on thing's which are in no prospect of improving on their state. 

         
          The beauty of life is believing in yourself, having faith on the          supreme power and doing what you feel is right. This without          worrying too much about what the society or the world is                  going to think of your actions as ultimately it is your life to be          lived not someone else’s life which you only need to charter.